Teaching Perseverance? Try Interactive Modeling

February 08, 2016 Categories: Classroom Management & Discipline / Interactive Modeling / Positive Community / SEL Skills
We all know students who seem to give up quickly and appeal for our help, even when the task is appropriately challenging, or students who are reluctant to even start a task that seems challenging and instead opt to sit and wait until we check in with them. These behaviors can halt progress and feel frustrating for both students and teacher.
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