Helping Students Give Effective Compliments

February 15, 2017 Categories: Middle School / Positive Community / SEL Skills

Telling students what they’re doing right is one of the most powerful tools we have for helping them solidify and build on their positive behaviors and skills—and teachers aren’t the only ones who can provide this type of support. Students can also encourage each other through the effective use of giving compliments.
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